caudelac: (gayer than a big gay thing.)
Hi! I am a queer, non-binary person whose pronouns are anything but "it", and who is also a mom married to a straight guy. No, I don't find any of this contradictory. It took me a long, strange trip to get here, and I am really quite comfy about it. I am not fussed about misgendering (from my perspective, you pretty much can't misgender me), which in no way invalidates those who are hurt and exhausted by such thoughtlessness. If you aren't sure what pronouns to use for someone, ask, yo.

This has been your National Coming Out Day public service announcement.
caudelac: (gayer than a big gay thing.)
Okay, okay, I admit it.

I'm bisexual.

xoxo
~R
caudelac: (smooch.)
Taking yon Love Language testthings this morning, side-long through [livejournal.com profile] shadesong.

For posterity and whatnot. )

So also, according to the Klein Sexual Orientation Grid, I am a 4-- Predominantly Homosexual, More than Incidentally Heterosexual.

I love this phrasing for so many reasons.
caudelac: (gayer than a big gay thing.)
Hat-tip to [livejournal.com profile] technoir:

Anti-Gay Calif. Politician Cited for DUI--After Leaving Gay Bar.

The best part? This was in Sacramento, and the bar was Faces. Seriously. FACES. Anyone on my f*list who is a Sacramentan realizes how hilarious this is. I mean, who goes to Faces and doesn't expect everyone will know their business the next day? When we were 16, we knew what went on at Faces last night. But seriously folks, the nostalgia is a little crazy here. Faces was the gay bar, the Earth around which the Mercantile and the Depot circled like little moons. I never went, because my parents used to hang out there back in the day, coz the dancing was best there, and coz my mom's best friend was gay. And I thought it would be a little weird, to hang out at the gay bar your (straight) parents used to frequent.

Some days, I really, really miss my Hometown.
caudelac: (gayer than a big gay thing.)
via [livejournal.com profile] theferrett:

This is rather braw and well done: The Conservative Case for Gay Marriage: Why same-sex marriage is an American value.

Great article, idiot commenters. As per usual. The Conservative case is that Conservative =/= Fundamentalist, by which one may as well say Conservative =/= Reactionary. Necessarily.

In addition, I've been following the liveblogging of the prop. 8 trial, which is Of Interest.

Lastly, I gotsta reference [livejournal.com profile] zoethe's post on Pat Robertson's Comments about Haiti, which were both horrific and unintentional comic gold: (emphasis mine)

"They were under the heel of the French, you know Napoleon the third and whatever. And they got together and swore a pact to the devil. They said 'We will serve you if you will get us free from the prince.' True story. And so the devil said, 'Ok it’s a deal.'

Yeeeeeeeeah, I got nothin.
caudelac: (dragoons are hotter than you.)
I am so in love with he who wrote this post, you have no idea.

It's a Coilhouse kind of love!
caudelac: (gayer than a big gay thing.)
Out of town for thanksgiving starting tomorrow. Tastes like road trip!

And just in case you were wondering:

In subjective terms, this means you are predominantly homosexual; only incidentally heterosexual.

I like the term, "Only incidentally heterosexual".

My incidental straight is so very gay.
caudelac: (no.)
Dear Sacramento County,

Don't you dare vote yes on prop 8. Don't you fucking dare. I will fly the fuck out there with a baseball bat and I will fucking tattoo your collective ass. I will go to Natomas, as I /know/ whose shit this is, I will be all up in the Manors and in Oak Park, I will stalk through Rancho Cordova snarling murder, I will call out some motherfuckers, I will KICK SOME ASS.

Don't shame me, hometown stylez. Don't you fucking dare.
caudelac: (gayer than a big gay thing.)
It seems that I am going to be the stagemanager for Big Daddy of Ringside's production of Over the Rainbows-- which be a musical written and orchestrated by hissownself. It's quite fabulous.

Did laundry today. Am a little depressed about the sitch... on the one hand, I have this opportunity to try to find something I actually want to do, while I'm collecting unemployment.

On the other hand... what on earth could that be? That I can afford, anyway.

Hm.

Oh yes-- my teeth suck.

The end.
caudelac: (gayer than a big gay thing.)
At Jury duty. How nice they have these lovely compys for us to use on break. Can't talk about case, save that it's criminal, but will prolly be here a couple of days. Sighness.

The icon is how I feel about it all, really.

gawd, my moodset is now appropriate!
caudelac: (happy!)
This week has been full of all manner of annoying crap
Especially at wukr,
but I,
I am actually pretty happy,

I thought you should know.
caudelac: (Hades in Hose.)
Today is the last day of September.

I think there are people being prideful somewhere else in town to-day. Joshmonster tonight. Materialism now.

That's all I have to say right now.
caudelac: (royal rainbow!)
This has no purpose beyond Gip-age, but gawd does this icon amuse me on far too many levels.

Go see This Webcomic for a sign.
caudelac: (gayer than a big gay thing.)
Tis Durham Pride!

There is a very good chance that I have gotten suckered into volunteering with NCLYN (North Carolina Lavender Youth Network) here in Durham, by a very nice, very lovely, very straight girl who fed me sour apple martinis, talked about Kiss of the Spider Woman, and danced the Charleston.

But I'm not wholly sure.

Must go watch a parade and confirm.
caudelac: (gayer than a big gay thing.)
In Athens, Ohio.

([livejournal.com profile] godlypersepctiv, [livejournal.com profile] grailquestion, anf the rest of the Cleveland bunch: So close, yet so far.)

Borrowing [livejournal.com profile] eponabast's friend Rob's computer swiftly to inform the world of this fact. There is apparently to be Dancing and such tonight and tomorrow night. This is an excellent thing. It has been far, far too long since there was any sort of dancing in the Rabbitverse. Today there has been mostly good food, hippy-ness, Controlling Impulses, loud music, and Uber-queerness. Yes.

[livejournal.com profile] silvarawilde: I got us two thirds of a prezzie! It's for both of us, really, but the particulars were selected with you in mind.

Various other thoughts being present and accounted for, but shall remain unshared for the moment, as I need a shower like eating and air.

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